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Post by {SoS}Chrome on Feb 3, 2007 0:27:29 GMT -5
well, at least you did already go out whit someone not like me lol-.-
"Will, you have no friends, go die in a hole" - lol wtf? they rly don't like u :S
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Post by justice on Feb 3, 2007 1:30:30 GMT -5
1. I think you should become a hermit. 2. Don't refer to "loving" someone unless you've been in a relationship with them for a substantial amount of time. 3. Why did you make a "love CD" for this chick?
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Post by {SoS} Willy on Feb 3, 2007 9:05:01 GMT -5
I dunno Justice. She always listened with her friends on the same IPod, so I thought she'd like to listen to this instead? Well, she did borrow the IPod adapter from me which allows you to have 2 headphones into 1 IPod. I eventually bought her one, and she refused to keep it, so she asked for her to give me money for it. Thanks Jack
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Post by {SoS}Mr. Jåck on Feb 3, 2007 13:13:45 GMT -5
It seems like you're looking for a relationship too much. Don't go looking, you'll often come off as desparate and even stalkerish. I know it hurts to be single, and probably hurts more with having little friends, but it's much more rewarding when you let things happen. Just live your life, concentrate on school, maybe try to make some new friends. You might be getting ahead of yourself, saying that you "loved" all of these girls. Chances are that it was infatuation (obsession). Infatuation is often mistaken as love in high schoolers. What I've noticed is that telling a girl you love her is often a TURN OFF. Girls don't like it when you rush that feeling. You have to give it a while. When you rush it, they think it's creepy and awkward (like the one did). It's ok to burn cds, but just please god don't call it a love cd.
So just chill and see what happens.
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Post by {SoS}ßl¡Tz on Feb 3, 2007 13:34:11 GMT -5
You certainly have more under your belt than I. I am no use here, I've only had one real gf..
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Post by {SoS} Willy on Feb 3, 2007 13:50:15 GMT -5
Thanks Jack, Blitz! C'mon, I'd expect you as the chick magnet, like Marshall Yea, I kinda noticed that I was rushing, and now I'm not doing that. That was a yearrrr ago anyway... Thanks for your support, and keep it up!
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Post by justice on Feb 3, 2007 15:32:44 GMT -5
Psh, you don't need to have had many girlfriends to help out, Blitz.. If Will was in a relationship and needed advice, like, uh.. "At which point during making out should I start feeling her up?" (kidding) then it might help to have a bunch of relationship experience . Yep. I second Mr. Jack. Play it cooool. Act like you don't care.. Several of my friends said that guys who act kind of stand-offish and ignore them slightly before they get in a relationship with them is kind of a turn on. However, that's only until you get into a relationship with them and then they want you to buy them stuff and be at their beck and call . Then again, all girls are different and you shouldn't try to play of one giant standard and hope it works for everyone .
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Post by {SoS}ßl¡Tz on Feb 3, 2007 22:05:38 GMT -5
Lol, sounds good I assume. Just be cool around her, don't set your sights on a relationship just yet.. beleive me, I'm going through something very similar to that right now. If you love spending time with her and she's physically attractive, then go for it, but the time being... just talk mostly. This girl I'm working on is like... perfect for me, I can't find any faults with her so far (besides the fact that she's not going out with me yet). I love being around her and she's fine. I don't mind being close friends with her, but... I kind of set my expectations in dating too high too early so now it's like every time she mentions dating it's like we're breaking up or something. BUT hopefully she will come around soon... I keep holding onto that hope. But in the mean time, I get some benefits... so that'll hold me off for a while. ;D Here's an update on one of my days with her (please remember we are not an item atm. We will go with... last wednesday: Waiting on bus... get on bus, hug, I put arm around, we chat all the way to the school, she hugs me ( I normally don't give much about hugs, but she has really good ones) before getting off bus. The we hold hands on the way to my locker, and she kisses me 2-4 times before going over to her friends table. She gets stalled at one of her other friends tables close to my locker, so after I get my books, I walk past her and she leans back and kisses me another time or two in front of her friends. (no peckage, minor toungue) and then we part ways until the bell rings. Then she meets up with me on my side of the cafeteria and we hold hands on the way to Spanish (she has french across the hall) then she hugs and kisses me again. After 2nd period, she comes half way across the school to meet up with me again for the time between Physics and AP US. We chat for a sec then she does the usual . Then I walk her to Alg. II and do the usual, then go to Ancient World. Then soccer practice, don't do much there because the coach doesn't approve of boy/girl stuff on teh soccer field. Then once practice is over, she cuddles with me kinda until the bus gets there, then she half-falls asleep on my shoulder and kisses me multiple times on the way home on the activity bus. Now I don't how she can like me so much, and not want to date. I go over to her house like every weekend too. Wow, that was a long explaination. I hope I don't regret divulging this stuff to you guys.
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Post by {SoS} Willy on Feb 3, 2007 22:57:56 GMT -5
Jesus Christ, YOU DON'T THINK SHE'S GOING OU WITH YOU?!? Dude, she definitely is. This thread is about ME, so go brag somewhere else, If I was a Mod I'd say that it's against rules to "spam", since this post isn't in the right place, but since your boss, I'll keep my mouth shut Well, Amanda's tall and has a good personality. Not a lotta curves though
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Post by {SoS}ßl¡Tz on Feb 3, 2007 22:58:56 GMT -5
Lol. Have you seen my old gf?
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Post by {SoS} Willy on Feb 3, 2007 23:00:55 GMT -5
No, why?
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Post by {SoS}ßl¡Tz on Feb 3, 2007 23:03:55 GMT -5
In reply to your "no curves" statement... she wasn't the greatest fish in the sea. But for some reason I still went out with her for 5 monthsish. So, she doesn't have to be stellar, just appealing to the eye. (no buck teeth, 80's hair, etc.)
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Post by {SoS} Willy on Feb 3, 2007 23:08:01 GMT -5
Ok, Haha, just noticed we're kinda IM'ing each other between ICT and this......
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Post by {SoS}Mr. Jåck on Feb 4, 2007 0:16:32 GMT -5
@will: She might have a thing for you, don't get too excited about it yet. Like Blitz said, play it cool. You don't know anything yet, see if she acts different around her. If you want to get her email or AIM or whatever, maybe just casually try to get it. I can't think of any 'smooth' ways to go about it, but there's always the semi-lame way; "I saw this funny/hilarious video/forward/picture/story/digital object last night. Gimme your email and I can show you." Obviously you'll need something entertaining to do this, but it might work.
@blitz: From what you've said about her and her ex, it sounds like she's just trying to pull off friends with benefits. She's avoiding the relationship so she can have the companionship and intimacy of a relationship without the commitment. Handle it how you want to. If you think there's still a possibility of her going out with you, then stick with it. If it was me, although I wouldn't be in a relationship in the first place, I would try to get out of that.
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Post by {SoS} Willy on Feb 4, 2007 0:21:27 GMT -5
Thanks Jack!
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