Post by justice on Feb 15, 2007 16:44:48 GMT -5
Blitz and Mr. Jack may remember back in the day when I was first complaining about convincing Kira to try out a relationship with me . Well, I convinced her.. but only for one month, one week, and four days. Then she broke up with me because she didn't want it to get too serious due to religion differences and how it would hamper our future together. I'll explain more on that if someone wants me to.
Well, long story short, Kira and I got to spend some time together on Friday and Saturday. It was the first time we've been together since she broke up with me. On Friday, circumstances brought up the opportunity for me to hold her because she was cold. She reciprocated and put her arms around me. Saturday evening, there was a dance. We danced to three slow songs, after two of them we held hands until we got back to our seats, and after the third time we kept holding hands after we sat down. After Friday nights happening, I thought about asking her to be my valentine while we were slow dancing the next night. The only problem is I was going to wait until near the end of the dance so if she turned me down, I wouldn't have to be around her for that long. She ended up leaving an hour early because her sister and friends decided to have a party at their house and Kira wanted to join them.
After she left the dance, I was feeling really down about not getting to ask her and was puzzling over how to ask her the entire weekend. Eventually, I came to the conclusion, with the help of my friends, that I would call her and ask her to be my Valentine along with a bit of chatting about possibly seeing her sometime on Wednesday. We talked on the phone on Wednesday evening and I got right down to the point, asking her to be my Valentine. She giggled a bit and said yes . That pretty much made my night.. and I was going to ask her about coming to see her, but her dad called her and she had to go. About half an hour later, I was talking with a friend and decided it would be nifty if I went and surprised her at her youth group. After a pit stop at my own youth group to consult some of my wise friends about the matter, I was on my way to Safeway to pick up one red rose and some babies breath (turned out to be something different because they didn't have any of the babies breath.. but it still looked cute). I wrote a little note on one of those tiny cards that go along with the flowers and headed off to her church.
When I surprised Kira, it was pretty much awesome . She had this huge smile on her face and told me how nice it was that I surprised her (or something like that). We held hands walking back to my car because I didn't particularly want to stay at her youth group.. just because if I did, I wouldn't be with her (they seperate genders). We hugged goodbye and I left the happiest guy in the world.
Here is the, uh, sort of problem. Eventually, Kira and I are going to have to talk about what happened. I'm afraid to do this because I am under the impression that since none of the circumstances have changed between us, the same reason for breaking up would still exist. I really don't know if she still feels the same way, though. She doesn't open up much to even her best friend so I can't really get the inside scoop from that angle . Another note.. one thing that irritated me while we were together was the lack of communication (she doesn't have a cell phone and can only talk on their home phone for about five minutes at a time so we pretty much communicated completely via Myspace) and not being able to see her very often. Well, next quarter she is going to be coming to Clark full time. I'll be able to see her everyday.
What do you guys think? Any other details that are fuzzy that I need to clarify?
Well, long story short, Kira and I got to spend some time together on Friday and Saturday. It was the first time we've been together since she broke up with me. On Friday, circumstances brought up the opportunity for me to hold her because she was cold. She reciprocated and put her arms around me. Saturday evening, there was a dance. We danced to three slow songs, after two of them we held hands until we got back to our seats, and after the third time we kept holding hands after we sat down. After Friday nights happening, I thought about asking her to be my valentine while we were slow dancing the next night. The only problem is I was going to wait until near the end of the dance so if she turned me down, I wouldn't have to be around her for that long. She ended up leaving an hour early because her sister and friends decided to have a party at their house and Kira wanted to join them.
After she left the dance, I was feeling really down about not getting to ask her and was puzzling over how to ask her the entire weekend. Eventually, I came to the conclusion, with the help of my friends, that I would call her and ask her to be my Valentine along with a bit of chatting about possibly seeing her sometime on Wednesday. We talked on the phone on Wednesday evening and I got right down to the point, asking her to be my Valentine. She giggled a bit and said yes . That pretty much made my night.. and I was going to ask her about coming to see her, but her dad called her and she had to go. About half an hour later, I was talking with a friend and decided it would be nifty if I went and surprised her at her youth group. After a pit stop at my own youth group to consult some of my wise friends about the matter, I was on my way to Safeway to pick up one red rose and some babies breath (turned out to be something different because they didn't have any of the babies breath.. but it still looked cute). I wrote a little note on one of those tiny cards that go along with the flowers and headed off to her church.
When I surprised Kira, it was pretty much awesome . She had this huge smile on her face and told me how nice it was that I surprised her (or something like that). We held hands walking back to my car because I didn't particularly want to stay at her youth group.. just because if I did, I wouldn't be with her (they seperate genders). We hugged goodbye and I left the happiest guy in the world.
Here is the, uh, sort of problem. Eventually, Kira and I are going to have to talk about what happened. I'm afraid to do this because I am under the impression that since none of the circumstances have changed between us, the same reason for breaking up would still exist. I really don't know if she still feels the same way, though. She doesn't open up much to even her best friend so I can't really get the inside scoop from that angle . Another note.. one thing that irritated me while we were together was the lack of communication (she doesn't have a cell phone and can only talk on their home phone for about five minutes at a time so we pretty much communicated completely via Myspace) and not being able to see her very often. Well, next quarter she is going to be coming to Clark full time. I'll be able to see her everyday.
What do you guys think? Any other details that are fuzzy that I need to clarify?